Wife: I will tell them never treat her husband as her husband, but treat him as his best friend. A friend who she can trust and have fun living with. Moreover, never let her best friend get use to an schedule and standard form. I mean always think of surprises and new ways! In her dressing up, in her funs, in her sex ways, in her cooking and decorating the house!
Husband: It is important and I should say very critical to never forget she was your best friend. She was the kind of girl that make you fall in love with her. Specially when you get upset with her think of the first things that you loved about her. And tell her those things about her. Be responsible and protective about her wishes and dreams.
I am a married woman who would like to express my point of view about this question. Yes, many roles has changed. I was a single girl only responsible about my education and school work. Now I am responsible of taking care of the household. Before I only went to gathering that I wish but now I am responsible about both my family and relatives and my husband’s family and relatives, to call them, attend in their parties and ceremonies and … before I could sleep when ever and where ever I would love to (in my friends or cousin’s home ) but now I am careful to go to bed with my husband, talk to him, read books together and of course when both of us want have some fun! Now I limit the time I am spending on my own and the time I had spent with my friends. Because now all my time is not for myself. One proportion of it is mine, some for my husband and some for my God.
I am husband who would like to express my points too: I am now responsible for both my wife and my own expenses. I limit my time to spend with my friends as well. I can no longer walk around in my pajama during the day! I am more organize and clean these days!! before I didn’t much care jokes about mother in law but now, I love to hear jokes about her and I laugh very hard usually to empty myself! Just kidding! I have a lovely mother in law but what I mean is that after marriage you will be more careful about both families and their beliefs and …
Q:I am a married woman. I wish to know the characteristics of an ideal woman who is the best wife? Since I am a woman, it is almost impossible for me to throughly feel those. I can only feel and know the things that if a man and a partner does, make him unique, ideal and the best in her wife’s eyes. I wish to know what makes the wife perfect in her man’s eyes?
A:The best ideal spiritual wife: 1-Full of energy in 4 aspects :body,emotion, mind and spirit. 2-Fresh in the morning ,happy in during the day and hot at the time of enjoyment! 3-Healthy and beautiful all the time. 4-Best cook according to her partner’s taste. 5-Be talented enough to understand her partner’s wishes before he say anything about them. These 5 was the most important ones that I, as a man, could think of. I do believe that woman’s roles are harder than man’s role. Every married woman eventually can have 2 main possible roles: a wife and a mother. When you concentrate on your mother role, you can not be an ideal woman as a wife. This has been a paradox for all women in history. More over you are interested to be a great sister and a sister in low and many other roles as well.