Q: I live with an arrogant roommate. We both study medicine and dealing good with our courses but she always likes to talk about her educational records, abilities and knowledge. What is the best reaction to these kinds of personality and how can I best enjoy her company.
A: I and you and any other people can evaluate ourselves in four category and those are as follow:
1. I am O.K. , you are not O.K.
2. I am not O.K. , you are not O.K.
3. I am not O.K. , you are O.K.
4. I am O.K. , you are O.K.
The forth situation is the best one but everyone can reach this situation easily. They need to learn and then practice in life. Remember that our life style, life plans, life skills, life goals and life management are really matters here. Your roommate did not reach to the final situation and I think she is in “I am O.K, but you are not O.K” situation. What about you? Your emotions and feelings toward her is very much depends on your situation! If you think that you are not O.K. then you can not feel good but you can try to change your situation to the final situation. Please write about your feelings for yourself. In your writings you will find that it is not important what others will do to you but it is very important what you are doing and thinking about yourself.
Q:Sometimes I feel lots of energy to work hard for God, but sometimes I do not have any intention of trying to live the best life I can. I slow down. How should I think to get motivation again? Maybe it is because my mind is getting distracted by the worldly matters of the mundane concerns. I need any spiritual word or energy you can please send to me.
DO you know 0 has not any value but it is the most creative number between all the other numbers? Some times we will reach 0 in our sensation. At this times we need to find another number for our life. Please look around you. See your loved ones or other people around you when you make them happy. When they become happy or when they are smiling. These are the reflection of God’s smile at you. There you can find your new number! It could be 1 or 2 or… Your number has been increased from 0 already! Look at the sky in the morning, look at the sun in the evening and look at the moon in the night. In each one of these, God make a new thing for us to look at. what about us? we have to make a new perception about our life too. God is waiting for us. Look GOD is looking at you now. let’s make him with our happiness.
Q:I am a 31 year old man , an Architect. Personally I do not care much about showing off my money for example, wearing an expensive watch or having specific brand of lab top. But my friends around me are always criticizing me that I am wrong. they say that in my filed when I go to a meeting to present my work(ex: the 3D of a building that I have designed for a buyer). It will really make a difference if I put the lab top which is the symbol of a more professional and more expensive brand of lab top on the table. They are trying to convince me that having the more expensive lab top will have more prestige and will increase the chance of hunting bigger projects. I am confused what to do? I know there is no difference between the 2 brand in terms of the quality of my work. In this case, is it really correct to follow what others believe in the world of business?
A:Sometimes we are not able to see ourselves as good as others can see the real us. Your words says that you are interested in using expensive stuff. But do you know why? Let’s find out: please look at your thoughts and ask: does your objective affect your subjective or is it vise versa? It is very important that we find out our direction in life. If objectives are your direction then you can buy expensive objects, but if subjectives such as life skills determine the quality of your being then do not loss your money and your time for objectives. Only life and life skill are worthy of gaining my dear . I am waiting for your answer. Subjective affect objective or objective affect subjective?
A2:Thanks for your guidance. To answer the question : I deeply believe that subjectives are more important. Subjects affect objects. I got my answer then: Since subjects such as life skills are the things that I need to walk trough my life better and to increase the quality of my being, I should not care about the objects.
Posted by Mona | Posted in Spiritual Tips | Posted on 19-08-2010
Q:I am a 34 male. I happened to be a victim of an injustices by my land lord. I tried all I could to get my rights back but nothing I do seems to work. I feel helpless, weak and unhappy. Suddenly all the world seems ugly to me. I know sometimes I can’t change the bad things that happens but I know I can change the way I think about them so I feel strong again. how should I feel better?
A:My dear friend, you have used I, more than 12 times in your writing. Do you know why? I will tell you the secret of this action. It is because you only think about yourself. It is very important to think about it, instead! But, You have talked about changing your feelings, getting strong again. All positive and hopeful. It shows me that you are very positive; therefor, think about your ability that made you wish for these great things! Look at yourself from outside. Then you will see a good man that God is happy and proud to have on this earth! Now, look at that bright moon right in his chest. That is hope! Do you see that beautiful smile on his face? …I see…